Words of Wisdom: (I need somewhere to store this thought)
You are strong! And you are only a loser because you are making yourself feel that way. Your Hubs cheated. Not because you weren't good enough but because he can't keep his dick in his pants. And he's the loser because he lost you and his next flavor of the month is going to be a loser too because she's with a cheater. You are a victim of "Can't keep my dick in my pants" syndrome. You need to hold your head high and be proud of who you are!